Do Girls Know When Guys Look At Their Butts? How Does It Make Them Feel?

Every day I thank the lord that I am bisexual, because nice butts are everywhere these days.

In fact, one of my most popular audios – ‘Perving On Public Ass’, was written by me as a way to express many of my own thoughts. I really get excited when a nice ass appears before me, and I’m lucky to have one I think is pretty nice myself.

The reality is, we are all hardwired to look at attractive people. Our eyes are naturally guided towards indicators of fertility and beauty, one of which is those two globes on the backsides of our bodies. Whether you like it or not, people are going to look at your butt. And well, it happens more with women than with men – part due to human nature, part due to the way us women dress.

So, you may be wondering – how perceptive are women, really? Do they actually know when you’re looking at their ass, and how does it make them feel when you do so? Let’s dive in! To the article, I mean.

Do Girls Know When Men Look At Their Butts?

The reality is, most women know that men look at their butts.

In fact, young girls become aware that their butts are seen as sexual as early as the time they enter puberty. And thanks to the internet and how heavily asses are praised in our media, girls know that people show an interest in each other’s butts well before then.

One of my friends’ kids is 11 years old. She has told me stories about how uncomfortable it made her to catch a man staring at her butt, while also telling me she worries whether or not it’s nice enough. Such is the world we live in. If she didn’t know that people put so much of a woman’s value on the way her butt looks, neither of these situations would have crossed her mind.

I find it incredibly sad that girls that are still in elementary school worry about such things. Anyhow, if young girls are aware that people look, then you can bet older women are too.

In fact, it doesn’t even matter what we’re wearing. We could be wearing a hospital gown or your grandma’s favorite pants and men are still going to glance. I’m not saying this as an attack against men. It’s just human nature.

Women tend to place a lot of emphasis on how we’re perceived, especially how we look. Girls are competitive, and appearance is not only something we attack each other for, but it’s how a lot of men determine whether or not we’re even worth talking to. Again, I’m not saying this as an attack. But you can bet we put thought into how our clothes match, the aesthetic we want to give off, and yes, how our clothes make different areas of our bodies look.

We also know that the more sexually appealing our outfits are, the more likely it is that people will look.

We know when people go out of their way to catch more glimpses of our ass. How you move to give yourself a better angle. How when your phone is pointing in our direction, there’s a chance you’re recording (which isn’t cool, by the way.)

We know this, because it’s happened to us hundreds or thousands of times before, with some men being more forward than others.

Does It Make Them Uncomfortable?

Context and your behavior is key when it comes to making a woman uncomfortable. And generally speaking, you should always err on the side of caution. Enjoy the view without making it known, and without breaking the law. As quickly as possible, shift your gaze elsewhere.

Let’s share two examples to help illustrate this.

Picture this scenario. It’s dark outside, and a woman is walking alone down the street, with only the occasional street light to show that she’s there. The street is full of alleys, and the police are known to avoid dealing with calls in that neighborhood because there are too many false reports. Oh yeah, and the woman was raped around this street this time last year. The rapist tried to kill her to avoid her telling the police, but he failed. Through no fault of your own, you happen to walk out of one of the alleys and end up no more than 20 feet behind her.

In another scenario, let’s say you spot a woman with a nice ass at a shopping mall. She’s in a group with her friends, and at any given time there are dozens of people around. One of her friends’ boyfriends is there with her. He’s a bodybuilder and she knows he carries a gun. Oh yeah, and there are cameras covering every inch of the mall.

Two wildly different scenarios, and two very different levels of comfort for the same thing.

In the first scenario, your very presence may trigger fear for her survival. It’s not fair to you – you know you’re a good person, but this reaction is completely natural and normal. The same way you’d, reasonably, trigger a fight-or-flight response if a tiger growled outside your shelter thousands of years ago.

In the second scenario, there is no threat to her safety or security. Even if you were to approach her or try flirting with her, she would feel comfortable declining your advances, knowing that her friends would back her up. She went somewhere expecting to have her body seen by strangers.

Unfortunately, there is no way to know how somebody will feel, which is why it’s so important to be respectful. Most women don’t care if you are reasonable about peeking. Some women will feel objectified, like a piece of meat. Others will relish in it, and even go out of their way to show off and tease men. This can flipflop at any time, depending on her mood, how she’s feeling about herself, or life events that have recently happened to her.

Why Do Girls Wear Such Revealing Clothing, Then?

If some women get offended or upset when people give them sexual attention, then what sense does it make to wear those kinds of clothes in the first place, right?

This is kind of a weird issue to address. Because on one hand, everyone should be free to wear whatever they want, without having to be sexually harassed by other people. On the other hand, it’s unreasonable to expect guys NOT to at least glance at it when a nice ass captures their attention. Just like your mouth waters when you see a juicy steak, your eyes will be drawn to a girl with a nice caboose. What makes the difference is whether or not your rational brain takes over and avoids pushing it too far.

It’s important to remember that there are lots of reasons that girls wear formfitting or revealing clothes, such as yoga pants or leggings.

It could be that she wants to show off, but only for one particular guy that she’s crushing on. It could be that she recently went through a break up, and wants SOME sexual attention to see that men are still interested in her, but doesn’t want anything beyond validation. It could be that they simply make her feel sexy and give her increased confidence.

You shouldn’t assume, even if someone is wearing a thong bikini and nipple pasties, that it’s alright to make sexual advances towards her. While you cannot be blamed for glancing – or even repeatedly taking peeks to masturbate to later, it crosses the line when you invade her sense of security, comfort, or privacy.

Closing Thoughts

Looking at a nice ass isn’t something to feel bad about. It happens automatically, the same way your body craves food when you’re hungry, to find warmth when you’re cold, sleep when you’re tired, and avoid walking into traffic. It’s biologically driven, and it’ll happen even when you’re not trying.

However, what makes humans special is that we have a conscious. We do not have to act on our impulses. We can enjoy the view, without advancing further and making the woman uncomfortable.

Women may not know each individual time you look at their butt, but they do know that men look. Don’t make it weird, and you probably have nothing to worry about.

Have any other questions? Ask them below, and I’ll be happy to help!

~ Lexi