Q&A: Why Do Men Like Doggy Style So Much? (And Why Women Do As Well!)

Did you know that doggy style is the most favored sex position for men – even beating out positions like missionary and cowgirl?

There’s something special about mounting from the back, and if you give most guys only one position to choose from, doggy style is going to be the one.

But what is it about doggy style that makes it so appealing to men – and why is it one of the most common sex positions anyway?

In this article, I’ll be covering each of the 9 reasons!

1. Dat Ass

Okay, let’s start with perhaps the most obvious one – doggy style gives the man a good view of the booty.

In most of the western world, men as a whole tend to prefer butts to boobs. There are a lot of reasons for this, and I cover what makes butts so attractive to us in this article here.

Missionary is special because of the intimate connection it provides – getting to look into each other’s eyes, kiss each other, and so on.

But if you are an ass lover, having a nice round ass to look down at can be a huge turn on, that will only make the sex more enjoyable.

2. It Allows For Deep Penetration

Because the penis enters the vagina in a downward position when entering the vagina, it allows for deeper penetration compared to many other sexual positions.

Unless you have a penis large enough to hit her cervix, this is probably going to feel more pleasurable for both of you. After all, getting all the way in there feels really good!

This is why when trying to conceive, experts recommend doggy style above most other sex positions, as it allows for deep penetration – allowing semen to land as close to the cervix as possible.

It may be particularly useful for those with smaller penises, or who are unable to shoot cum very far.

3. It’s Easy For Beginners

Doggy style, along with missionary, are some of the easiest sex positions for beginners to start out with.

It’s relatively straightforward, you can see where you’re looking, and nobody needs to bend or twist themselves into a pretzel.

For those that are self-conscious of the way they look, the fact that you don’t have to look at each other may help ease some nerves and anxiety (though, ideally this issue will be handled before you start having sex.)

Additionally, doggy style is comfortable regardless of body type. Utilizing pillows or adjusting the position of the woman’s legs can help it become easier or more pleasurable for some people.

4. Grabbing, Spanking, And Squeezing

One of the greatest things about doggy style is the freedom of movement.

You are essentially kneeling and just have to move your hips. You aren’t trapped under your own weight, and your arms and hands are able to move around freely.

This gives you lots of opportunity to utilize them to enhance your sexual experience!

Reach down and spank her ass. Squeeze her cheeks. Push them together and let them fall. Pull her hair. Grab onto her shoulders, and pull yourself in even deeper.

You could even reach under and grab her boobs if you wanted to! Missionary is great, but you can’t easily grab her butt since well, it’ll be pressed against the bed.

The fact that you are able to do so much at any time allows you to really mix things up, and keep the sex exciting even during long sessions.

5. The Guy Is In Control

Perhaps more so than any other sex position, doggy style allows for the guy to have ultimate control over the sex.

Not only is he able to go as fast or slow as he wants, but there’s a lot more than that too. For example, it’s easier to determine when to go deep vs. shallow, or when to start pounding hard vs. more gentle, full movements.

Additionally, because you can look down and actually see your penis, it’s much easier to pull it out farther without it accidentally slipping out.

Even if you did want to give up control for a moment, it’s easier to ask her to start moving back onto your cock herself, which isn’t as easy in a position like missionary.

When you want to be in charge, doggy style is the go-to position for sure!

6. It Doesn’t Tire Arm Muscles

Doggy style is also great for long sex sessions, because no major muscle groups get tired.

Some sex positions for example require you to essentially be holding a push-up like position, which can get tiring after just a few minutes. Or, you end up putting too much body weight on your partner, which can be uncomfortable for them.

Although doggy style requires you to kneel (or stand), it takes much longer for the muscles to become tired – and you can always modify the position if that becomes the case.

For couples that enjoy lengthy sex sessions (what I call ‘fuckathons’), gooning out to porn together or simply are sore from previous exercise, doggy style becomes an obvious choice!

7. It’s Animalistic, Raw, And Primal

There’s something incredibly hot about a woman on all fours. Grabbing her ass, mounting her, and thrusting in and out of her the way nature intended.

It could be because it’s the way we see so many other animals mate. It could be because it was a popular choice in our caveman days. Whatever the reason, our brains are drawn to humping from the back.

A woman on her hands and knees, butt arched up in the air, is a universal signal that calls out to our most primal instincts. It transcends language and cultural barriers. It can take us from rational, logical thinkers to someone who can think of nothing but plunging his dick as deep into her as he can.

A woman’s body is sexy regardless of how she positions it, but the doggy style position in particular is really great for turning people on.

8. It Feels Different

Another reason men (and women!) love doggy style so much is because it feels different than positions like cowgirl or missionary do.

The penis is going in upside down, and at a downward angle, which is very different than missionary. Although both are insanely pleasurable, one may feel better than the other. And even if you prefer the feeling of missionary to doggy style, switching positions is a good way to mix it up and keep the sex feeling different and exciting.

It’s worth noting that the differences can be more significant with certain vaginas, and less significant with others.

Therefore, I encourage you to try out lots of different positions to see what is most enjoyable for you and your partner!

9. It’s Easier In Summer

One final reason you don’t really think about until it happens, is that a lot of sex positions are really warm, especially in the summertime.

Having to move and work your muscles is hard enough. When you have somebody else’s body heat pressing against you, things get hot and sweaty really quickly.

For some, this is fun. However, it can also become quite uncomfortable.

Since the only bodily contact with doggy style is her butt pressed against his thighs, it minimizes heat and gives your body a lot more room to breathe.

So in warm environments, this can make a huge difference!

Why Women Enjoy Doggy Style

Now, women often enjoy doggy style for pretty much the same reasons, with slight differences.

For example, submissive women like that they are giving up all the control to the man. Feeling a guy grab and squeeze you can also be incredibly pleasurable, and again, make you feel submissive.

Us ladies also benefit from things like less heat and feeling you get turned on by our butts.

Of course, there are a few other unique benefits as well. For example, your balls may hit our clit while you slam into us, and clitoral stimulation is key to many women having orgasms. Due to the angle of the penis, it’s also more likely to hit the g-spot compared to missionary.

It’s no wonder why it’s a favored position for men and women alike!

Closing Thoughts

It feels kinda silly to analyze a basic sex position like this, particularly since we’ve been mating like this since the beginning of our species.

However, if you’re new to sex or you’re simply curious why so many people enjoy it – and have never stopped to think about it before… well, here you go!

What is your favorite sex position, and why?

I’d love to hear it in the comments below!

~ Lexi