Women’s Behavior – Lewd Lexi https://lewdlexi.com Sat, 13 Sep 2025 23:46:31 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://lewdlexi.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/cropped-cropped-favicon-32x32-1-32x32.jpg Women’s Behavior – Lewd Lexi https://lewdlexi.com 32 32 14 Things About Being A Woman Many Men Don’t Understand https://lewdlexi.com/being-a-women-things/ https://lewdlexi.com/being-a-women-things/#respond Tue, 16 Sep 2025 07:44:11 +0000 https://lewdlexi.com/?p=966 Group Of Women

Seeing as the election in the US is now over and a lot of the surprises came due to how women voted, I thought it would be interesting to highlight some of the ways women experience life differently, that a lot of men might not understand.

The truth is, although a lot of issues are blown out of proportion and a lot of progress has been made, there are still some areas of life that women experience differently, and if you’re a guy, you might not have any idea about.

In this article, I’m going to cover 14 different things, ranging from the way our bodies work to the societal pressures we face. I must reiterate that I don’t buy into the extreme feminist agenda, and I certainly realize there is a lot that is unfair towards men too. My goal isn’t to sound like a victim, demonize men, or to make anyone feel like women deserve special treatment. In fact, some of the issues are caused by women themselves.

Rather, highlighting the realities of these issues will help ALL of us become better and more understanding people.

With that out of the way, let’s begin!

1. The Importance Of Body Image And Appearance

This one is one of the more obvious ones, but it’s one of the biggest issues women and girls struggle with all throughout their lives.

Women are judged harshly on their appearances, both by men and other women.

We are constantly comparing ourselves to others, and may feel inadequate or unworthy of kindness if we don’t meet the beauty standards that are set for us.

This idea is indoctrinated into us from the very beginning. Even as young children, girls are dressed to look pretty instead of actually being comfortable, or able to play effectively. Relatives compliment us on our looks and not our achievements or our personalities. You can positively impact a child’s life just by choosing a different aspect of her to compliment, other than her looks!

In fact, if it’s all someone’s ever praised for, it only makes the need to continue looking pretty all that much more important – we don’t want to lose the only thing we feel we’ve got going for us.

As far as dating goes, a lot of men would never even consider getting to know someone they find unattractive. Yes, I understand this is a problem for men too. Yet, you’d be surprised how many overweight or unattractive women struggle to find meaningful relationships.

To a lot of men, a pussy is a pussy, but they jump ship as soon as they think they have a chance with someone more attractive.

And when it comes to girls…

2. Girls Often Judge Us Harsher Than You Do

Often, the harshest criticisms don’t come from men, but from other women.

Girls usually fight each other more than they fight with anyone else!

In fact, I’ve never experienced a man criticize my outfit, or my hair, or my makeup. If anything, they are more likely to not notice when something isn’t perfect (or even good), and tell me it looks good anyways.

Girls however will make snoody remarks about this kind of stuff all the time. God forbid you wear leggings that make your ass look too nice, because to certain girls, that automatically means that you’re a slut. Even if you’re just doing it to be comfortable.

Clothes can either be too plain, too flashy, or too slutty. A new hairstyle is weird. If you wear makeup, you are trying too hard and if you don’t wear any than you’re careless and lazy. If you have fat, it’s in the wrong places.

If you’re ugly, nobody cares about you, unless it’s to make themselves look better by comparison. If you’re pretty, you must be a bitch, because it’s impossible to have both a great appearance and a great personality.

There’s no winning, and this is partially because many girls can’t help but compare themselves to others, and see every other girl around them as competition.

And again, this really starts becoming an issue as early as elementary school. In men or boys, bullying is typically done in the form of physical threats or acts of violence.

In women and girls, it’s done by exclusion, insults, and verbal abuse.

Both are terrible in different ways, but are seen and treated differently by authorities. It’s no wonder that by middle school, some girls feel like they’re going through literal hell.

3. Breasts Hurt To Squeeze

This one’s a little silly, but I was surprised to find out that a lot of men don’t know this.

Although boobs are soft and squishy, it does not feel great if you wrap your hands around them and squeeze them like stress balls.

Remember that breasts are mostly made up of fatty tissue, not marshmallows and sunshine.

To simulate what it’s like, look for a fatty place on your body – perhaps your stomach or your legs and squeeze it.

Doesn’t feel too great, does it?

To make matters worse, breasts can become much more sensitive as your period approaches, making them even more painful to be squeezed!

4. Periods Can Be BRUTAL

I think that many men underestimate how bad periods can actually be.

On the physical side of things, periods can cause pain so intense that it leaves us screaming or even throwing up. This is made worse when women have a condition called endometriosis, in which tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows, well, outside the uterus. This affects over 10% of women of reproductive age, and many are never told that their painful periods are not normal.

Hormonal changes during your period can lead to nausea, acne, headaches, and other unpleasantries that make life harder to enjoy.

Not to mention the effects on mood and stress regulation and sensitivity.

Think about it this way. You don’t behave the same way when you’re horny, you’re drunk, or you have something else impacting your hormones. The same situation could occur, and you’ll interpret and react completely differently depending on your hormones during that time.

Just like someone might act differently if they’re hungry or tired, women often experience emotional changes during this time that can impact how they respond to situations.

5. Menstrual Cycles Affect Hormones Outside Of Periods

To make matters even more difficult, hormones are constantly changing throughout our entire cycle – not just when our period actually starts.

Many men believe that periods happen a few days out of the month, and then don’t affect us at all for the rest of it. This simply isn’t true.

These hormones can influence energy levels, appetite, skin, emotions, and even concentration.

For example, during ovulation (around the middle of the cycle), hormone levels peak, which can lead to higher energy and even changes in mood and attraction. After that, in the luteal phase, levels of estrogen and progesterone drop, often leading to premenstrual symptoms like bloating, mood swings, and fatigue before the period even starts. So, while the actual period might only last a few days, the effects of the cycle are at play the entire month.

Understanding this can be incredibly helpful. It explains why sometimes women may seem to have different energy levels or moods at different times in the month. Hormones don’t just ‘turn off’ when a period is over – they’re always in motion, and always impacting how a woman feels and functions.

6. Expectations Of Sex

One issue we need to get rid of entitlement to sex.

This happens all the time, and some women overcompensate by shouting things like “I have a boyfriend!@#!” just because you did something nice, or complimented them.

A lot of men, especially the so-called ‘nice guys’ believe that if they invest time building a connection with a woman, doing her favors, complimenting her, and so on, then they will be rewarded with sex afterwards.

Obviously, girls shouldn’t give people a false idea. But guys shouldn’t automatically assume they are ever entitled to a woman’s body, for any reason, ever.

Unfortunately, this can lead to many women acting cold or being afraid to get too close to a guy.

It is a terrible feeling when you are becoming real friends with someone, and all of a sudden they start making sexual advances.

7. Sexual Harassment Is Common, But Underreported

According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, 81% of women report experiencing sexual harassment or assault against them during their lifetime.

In other words, the overwhelming majority of women experience it at some point. It may seem like someone squeezing your ass is no big deal, but the effects of it can be long lasting. For example, a woman might wonder if any men can be trusted or if they are all willing to disrespect her boundaries, or if the assault would have been more intense if the situation were different – if the person was able to get away with it.

Even if you decide it were worth the time, the money, and the stress to show up in court and report the incident, there’s a good chance police won’t care. There is after all, no proof that someone made an uncomfortable sexual comment or touched you in an inappropriate way. And yeah, maybe if you want to drag it out they can get punished, but it won’t take back what you went through.

Sexual harassment happens to men too, of course – it’s just not as prevalent.

8. The Biological Clock

Women’s fertility typically peaks long before they’re physically, financially, and emotionally ready to have a baby. This ‘biological clock’ eats away at us and forces us to make tough decisions that may not be in our long-term best interests.

For example, women may forgo advancing in a career to start a family, or have to drop out of college due to an unexpected pregnancy.

Even for those that delay having children, women experience a decline in fertility after 30, that drops off even further after 35. By age 40, their chances of conceiving each cycle drop by 2 and a half times – while the pressure to succeed only increases, as chances become slimmer and slimmer.

This is why many women end up having to start families by their mid 30’s, especially if they want to have multiple children. This may come into conflict with potential career advancement or opportunities.

9. We’re Expected To Age Well

Unfortunately, the emphasis on looks does not decrease even as we age – even if we’re happily married.

Conventionally speaking, men tend to become more attractive to the opposite sex, as they enter their 30’s and 40’s, and women tend to become less attractive. This can pose a lot of mental health issues, especially if one’s self-worth is tied up in their appearance.

It can be really upsetting for women to realize they don’t get the attention they once did from the general public, and see it going to younger girls instead. At the same time, peers will continue to compare and criticize you for your appearance.

It’s no wonder why the anti-aging market is over $70 billion annually!

10. Motherhood

This one kind of ties in with the biological clock, but it’s another big issue that a lot of people don’t understand the scope of.

Society expects you to become a mother. If you don’t become a mother, you are seen as selfish.

If you do become a mother – and especially if you do a really good job at it and devote a lot of time to your children, you are a liability to the company that you work for. Or at the very least, you’re going to be lacking in other areas that society finds valuable.

For what it’s worth, I fully support dads playing just as big of a role in the parenting process. They are just as much of a parent as the moms are, and if somebody wants to be a stay-at-home-dad, that’s awesome.

But, parenting is still kind of seen as more of a ‘woman’s job’, and people behave accordingly.

11. Stereotyping, And Legitimate Inequality

Although a lot of progress has been made – and some groups have even crossed over and started treating men unfairly by overcompensating, the reality is that there is still a lot of legitimate inequality going on when it comes to women.

The most obvious is in the workplace, particularly in leadership roles, or STEM fields where employers are unable to recognize that women are as capable as men at their jobs.

However, this extends to many other unforeseen areas as well – for example, medicine.

Doctors may attribute legitimate pain to our menstrual cycles, or aspects of our mental health to the hormones that our cycles affect.

Gastrointestinal disorders or symptoms like vomiting may be dismissed as bulimia or anorexia, which are more common in women.

Women have died because doctors dismissed their concerns and avoided actually diagnosing the issue.

12. Double Standards

Next up, we have good ol’ double standards and can’t-win scenarios.

This one might just be better off with a list.

If women sleep with different men, they’re whores. If they don’t put out, they’re prudes. If guys sleep with a lot of different women, they’re respected.

If they prioritize their career, they are neglecting their children. If they stay at home, they’re lazy. If dads stay at home, they’re progressive.

If they put a lot of work into appearance, they’re high-maintenance. Men aren’t as expected to do their hair, put on makeup, or use products to make themselves look like someone they’re not.

If they’re sexually harassed, people will ask them what they were wearing, or what they did to provoke the situation. Even as kids, girls are told that ‘boys will be boys.’

Women are expected to take care of household chores. Men are praised when they do so.

If a woman is assertive, she is seen as bossy, or aggressive. If a man is assertive, he is seen as a leader that goes after what he wants.

When women lose their cool, they are seen as emotional or irrational. Men who do so are more likely to be taken seriously.

The list goes on and on, and maybe some of these don’t seem like a big deal – but they do happen, and they are unfair.

13. Safety Concerns

Women are physically weaker and less capable of fighting back then men, overall. This is an undeniable fact.

Because of this, they have to be far more concerned for their safety. Not only is there the overwhelming concern about sexually-motivated crimes like stalking, rape or kidnapping, but they are also an easier target for muggers and other sorts of violent crime.

Which, makes sense if you think about the fact that we’re less able to fight back.

Many women are taught not to walk around alone, to always have people know where they are, and leave the GPS on their phones turned on.

Of course, crime happens against men too, but women are more fearful of it.

14. We’re Horny, And Want To Cum Too

Finally, guys I hate to say it – a lot of you are selfish in bed.

Sex is supposed to be about the both of you. Just imagine for a second if your wife orgasmed during sex, and immediately rolled over and went to bed. Needless to say, I doubt you’d be too happy.

I completely understand that after you orgasm, sex is one of the last things that’s on your mind.

However, orgasming is pretty great, and a lot of women really miss out on getting to experience them with their partners due to this selfish behavior.

Do her a favor, and try to make her cum before you finish.

I promise you, you’ll be rewarded for it!

Conclusion

Despite all of the progress that’s been made, there are still a lot of areas where women aren’t treated at the same level as men.

Yes, there may not be any blatant illegal discrimination going on in most of the developed world, but there are still smaller issues that make our lives difficult. And putting these together, they can really add up.

Of course, not all of these can be solved, and you shouldn’t feel bad if you hadn’t thought about these things before. I am not a radical feminist, and I simply brought these up to help you become a better person.

Simply being conscious of the issues that women face will help enrich the lives of all women and girls in your life. So, thank YOU for sticking through this, and reading all the way to the end. You’re making the world a better place.

~ Lexi

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Are you constantly looking around and seeing hot young girls with older men, and wonder what they’re doing differently? It’s not just looks, so what do they have you don’t?

The answer is a lot more complicated than you might expect – and often comes down to their natural personality traits and the way they approach life, more than their looks or their money. Thankfully, this means that even if you’re younger right now, you can use these same tactics to make yourself more attractive to women of all ages.

So, in this article, I’ll be breaking them down into separate categories – explaining what draws women to older men, and how you can use this information to make changes in your own life right now.

1. Older Men Have A Clear Direction In Life

This shouldn’t come as a surprise, but most women are attracted to people that got their life together, so to speak.

This doesn’t mean that they need to have everything already taken care of – we all know that nobody is perfect, and good things come with time.

As someone ages into their 30’s, 40’s and beyond however, they’ve probably gotten a good grasp on their identity, and what they want out of life. They know the career path they want to go down. They know whether or not they want to have kids. They know what their values are, they have deep rooted hobbies, they aren’t still experimenting or trying to figure things out.

To be fair, when you’re young, this is the time to experiment and try new things. This is natural, and beneficial. It’s important to figure out who you are. But that takes time.

2. They Provide Stability

This leads me into my second point, which is that older men provide stability and security that younger men don’t often have – again, because they still have a lot of changes going on in their lives.

Older men have already finished schooling, they’ve chosen a career path that they’re going to stick with, and they’re probably not going to be relocating anytime soon. They’ve gotten their youthful party phase out of the way, and while they certainly still like to have fun, they aren’t as sporadic or crazy about it.

They aren’t worried about making rent or where they’re going to live. Most of them have a place of their own and dating them feels ‘safe’ – it’s not as big of a risk as say, someone bouncing between jobs that can barely make rent.

Really, stability lowers the perceived risk of being with you. It helps her feel comfortable, safe and secure, especially when it comes to making a commitment.

3. They Make More Mature Decisions

Sticking with the ‘risk’ category for just a minute, older men take to make wiser, and more mature decisions.

They aren’t going to suddenly change the direction of their life, spend a ton of money, or do something with heavy consequences on a whim. They likely already have the wisdom and experience that living life provides, and think things out more carefully before making any changes.

But this also comes down to normal, day-to-day activities too. Instead of spending all their time playing video games, they make sure that household chores are taken care of. They buy insurance. They drive reasonable speeds when out on the road. They don’t put themselves or others in harm’s way by trying to “show off.”

According to a study done by Nikelodeon UK, men reach full emotional maturity only at age 43 on average, which is 11 years later than women.

So, if you think you’re done maturing by 25, think again!

4. They’re Typically Better At Sex

This one comes down to experience.

Sex is a skill, and it’s one that you get better at with practice. That’s not to say you need to take a ton of different women to bed, but like any skill, the more you do it – and in a larger number of different situations, the better you get at it.

This is completely anecdotal, but I’ve found from talking to different women that older men are also typically less selfish in bed – they go to greater lengths to ensure that the woman is having a good time, too. Sorry younger guys, but a lot of you all are selfish when it comes to sex – you get things going way too quick, and as soon as you cum, you’re done.

Sex of course, is only one part of a relationship. But of course, the better you are at it, the more she’s going to want to do it, and the more she’s going to want to stay with you.

A lot of older men actually do better when it comes to ‘hookup culture’ than younger guys do, because even if the girls are dating someone else, they’ll keep older guys on the side for booty calls.

Also just a quick note – good sex doesn’t mean ramming her like some kind of crazy pornstar. It comes down to communication, being in tune with each other, and genuinely caring about the other person’s experience.

If you want me to share more tips on sex in general, let me know – and sign up to my newsletter at LewdLexi.com/email/ so you can stay up-to-date with my content.

5. They’re Different From Past Partners

It takes time to find the love of your life. And unfortunately, that means that most people go through quite a few hard breakups before they find ‘the one.’

Younger guys are more impulsive, and are more prone to switching up relationships – even ending good relationships, in pursuit of novelty and excitement. Unfortunately, even if you are with your soulmate, that ‘honeymoon period’ at the beginning of all relationships always ends.

Thankfully, it’s replaced with a bond that is even better – but it’s not the same, dopamine-rush, over the moon feeling you get in the beginning.

Some women try dating older men because they believe it will prevent the pain they felt from past relationships ending – or solve problems those relationships had. Again, this comes down to some of the things mentioned already – if someone got dumped because their boyfriend changed careers and got too busy for her, they’re going to be drawn to someone that’s settled in their career, and isn’t overwhelmed with other responsibilities.

This is highly individualistic. But humans are twice as likely to make decisions to avoid pain than to gain pleasure, so if they’ve been hurt in the past by younger guys, they may think an older man is the answer.

6. Older Men Typically Have A Financial Edge

We can pretend all we want, but let’s be real here – most women are more drawn to people with money, whether they like to admit it or not.

This doesn’t mean they can’t love someone who has nothing, obviously. But if two people were exactly the same, and one had money and one didn’t, most women would choose the guy with the money.

People tend to get wealthier as they get older. They move up in their careers, they own their own stuff, and if they were financially responsible, they have savings to fall back on.

Money is security, sure. But it’s also comfort, it’s less stress, it’s excitement and opportunity, it’s freedom. And who doesn’t want that?

Interestingly enough, women aren’t as attracted to younger men that appear to have money. If an older man drives a nice car, we assume that he’s made good choices that have led him to a lavish lifestyle. If a younger man is driving a sports car, women assume that he’s being fiscally irresponsible, and that the money won’t last.

So, don’t think that flaunting the money you have is a good idea. Show that you have promise for a financially secure future – have a good career lined up, start a business, show promise that you won’t be broke.

That’s far more important than designer clothes, or god forbid, a massive car loan.

7. Some Women Find Them More Attractive

This is the other one that you can’t really do anything about.

They say that women get less attractive as they age, but men get more attractive as they age – up until around age 50, according to one study.

Biologically speaking, this may be because women’s fertility continues declining as she ages. And since a big part of why we seek out mates is so we can reproduce, fertility is pretty important.

Men on the other hand don’t experience the same fertility drop-off that women do – once they start producing sperm, they can have babies their entire life.

Just like you might prefer blondes or brunettes, some women prefer the look of older, more mature men. But of course, this doesn’t mean that they’ll exclusively date older men.

There is a lot one can do to improve their attractiveness to women, even if you haven’t been blessed with a beautiful smile, you’re not tall, and all these other factors that people use as excuses – but don’t make as big of a difference as they seem. Yes, there are things you can’t control, but there is also a lot you can control.

8. They Exhibit More Attractive Personality Traits

Some of those controllable factors are your personality traits. And this often has a lot more to do with making someone attracted to you than looks alone do.

Older men have more confidence. They don’t fear rejection as much – probably because they’ve lived through it a lot more, and they’re a lot more sure of themselves.

When you are desperate for someone’s affection, it shows. And unfortunately, in any relationship – be it sexual, romantic or even in business, the person that is willing to walk away is the one with all the power.

Speaking of power, older men also have more influence – perhaps due to their career, and assertiveness. They don’t let people take advantage or wrong them – or the woman as much. They’re not afraid to speak up about it. They’ve gone through enough shit in their life that they aren’t going to tolerate injustice, just to avoid confrontation.

Now again, these are all generalizations, but it’s true.

Thankfully, confidence, charisma, assertiveness, humor – these are all traits you can actually work on and improve at any age.

Closing Thoughts

As you can see, there’s not really anything special about being older in particular. While it’s true that many men become more attractive as they age, the majority of what draws women to older men has nothing to do with looks.

If you’re willing to work hard to make these changes in your life, and become a man with great potential, then women will start to take notice. In fact, improving yourself for your own sake, rather than just to get laid, counterintuitively tends to result in much more attention from women than fancy clothes, memorizing pickup lines, or even being super attractive.

If you want more tips on actually getting a quality girlfriend, let me know! This is the first time I’ve done an article like this, so I’m curious if it’s something you found interesting or helpful.

See you again soon,

~ Lexi

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