In fact, people that have them say that a regular orgasm pales in comparison, and almost isn’t even worth it anymore. Prostate orgasms can be so incredibly amazing that some people end up getting completely addicted to them, spending long amounts of time in sheer bliss as they orgasm over and over again.

After all, the prostate is called the ‘male g-spot’ for a reason.

But if you’ve never heard of prostate orgasms before, the whole idea can sound a little uncomfortable, especially if you’re not used to that sort of thing.

So, in this article I want to share more about what prostate orgasms are, what makes them so much more incredible than regular orgasms with ejaculation, and the best tool you can use to start having them yourself.

What Is The Prostate?

So first, I want to quickly explain what the prostate actually is – because many people don’t know a lot about this little organ located between the penis and the rectum.

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that’s located about 2 inches up the anus. This gland is responsible for secreting prostate fluid which makes up part of the semen that comes out when you ejaculate, while also being responsible for some of the contractions and muscle movement that happens during orgasm. It’s unique to males, and it’s one of your reproductive organs.

But that’s not the fun part.

What makes the prostate so special is the fact that it has a ton of nerve endings within it – which means it can produce intense, pleasurable sensations when stimulated properly. Of course, these thousands of nerve endings usually go untouched, so it might not be a type of pleasure that you’ve ever felt before.

Like the penis, if you stimulate it in the right way, and the conditions are right for you to do so, then your body will orgasm.

However, prostate orgasms are considered to be much better in just about every way possible. Let’s look over some reasons why, now.

What Makes Prostate Orgasms So Incredible?

Note that obviously, I do not have a prostate, and therefore have never had a prostate orgasm. However, I’ve spent a lot of time researching as well as talking one-on-one with those that are experienced with this, and I take their word as credible. Anyway, moving on.

1. They’re More Intense – And Encompass Your Full Body

When you orgasm and ejaculate from your penis, the sensation is localized to your penis. It may feel intense, but most of the sensation is at that one spot.

Prostate orgasms can encompass your entire body and are far more intense.

In fact, some people say that if a penile orgasm was a 2/10, a prostate orgasm would break the scale entirely.

They last longer, too – some people say they experience up to 3x more contractions per orgasm than with penis orgasms, and each one can go on for as long as several minutes.

I was always jealous of pigs, who have orgasms that last as long as 90 minutes. Well, a several-minute-long orgasm is still pretty great!

It’s no wonder that so many people that try it out – and master it – because it does take practice, feel like no other orgasm will ever compare to it again.

2. You Can Have Multiple – There’s No Refractory Period

One prostate orgasm can have your toes curling, your body spasming, your voice crying out in raw pleasure. But that’s only where it gets started.

Why?

Because with prostate orgasms, there is no refractory period. This means that there is nothing stopping you from continuing on, and having another orgasm.

And another one. And another one.

In fact, there is no real limit to the amount of orgasms you can give yourself in one session. Be it dozens or more, you can keep going for literal hours and the pleasure never has to stop.

Imagine the best orgasm of your life. Then imagine it continuing on as long as you’d like, never stopping.

Certain toys that I’ll talk about later, are designed to take advantage of the natural spasms and muscle movements that occur during prostate stimulation. They can end up moving entirely on their own, while you just lay there and enjoy the pleasure your body is giving you.

I recall reading one story about a man desperately trying to get to his bathroom without collapsing from pleasure while he continued orgasming over and over again.

Does that sound magical, or what? As a girl I’ve always been able to have multiple orgasms, but this sounds even better!

3. There’s No Ejaculation

The idea of experiencing orgasm after orgasm might sound like a hassle. It might sound messy. But the good news? There’s often no ejaculation.

Now, some people experience ejaculation, but most people don’t. Even if something does drip out of their penis, it’s usually just prostatic fluid, or precum. And it doesn’t really shoot out, either.

This means no mess, and no feeling like your balls are completely drained afterwards.

If you’re trying to conceive, you will still have ample semen to pump into someone else, and if you do decide you want to have a penile orgasm and ejaculate, you’ll probably shoot out far more cum than normal if you do it in conjunction with prostate play.

4. You Can Train Yourself To Have Them Without Touching Your Prostate

Finally, although prostate orgasms are most easily done with direct stimulation to your prostate (be it a finger, a toy, or something else), you can also train yourself to have one without touching your prostate at all – simply by squeezing and relaxing your PC muscles, then focusing on the pleasure emanating from your prostate.

There’s a process when you start prostate stimulation that many people refer to as ‘awakening your prostate’ and ‘rewiring’ your brain to become more accustomed to prostate pleasure. Typically, the more you practice and the more in tune you get with your body and your prostate, the easier it is to achieve powerful orgasms.

Some people are able to build up to powerful orgasms even without needing to use the toy at all, meaning they can orgasm anywhere, anytime they want, completely discreetly (as there is no ejaculate to stain the front of your pants.)

This opens up a world of possibilities. Be it orgasming in a strip club while getting a lap dance, getting driven around in the car or simply when you’re being teased in public by your partner, imagine all the new fun you’ll be able to have once you master this skill!

The Best Tool To Have A Prostate Orgasm

Prostate orgasms can be achieved using anything that is able to touch the prostate – be it your fingers, a penis, a dildo, or toys specifically designed for this purpose.

However, the gold standard are toys made by a company called Aneros.

Aneros toys are a small, either plastic or silicone toy that you insert into your rectum, and are specifically shaped to maximize pleasure from your prostate. They were originally designed as massagers by medical experts to relieve symptoms of prostate-related conditions.

Once the toys are inserted, they no longer have to be touched, making them the only real hands-free option on the market. Instead, the unique shape uses the movement of your own muscles to subtly move the toy along your prostate, ever so slightly.

Aneros currently has over a dozen different models, each with minor differences.

While I will put together a full buying guide soon that explains more about the various Aneros products, the one I recommend first if you’ve never tried an Aneros before is the Helix Syn V. This is on the smaller end of their models and should be comfortable for you even if you have no experience with anything anal-related.

Once you’ve tried it, you’ll be better equipped to decide which of their models might be even better suited to your body and your preferences.

Conclusion

Prostate orgasms are a magical thing that many men don’t even know exist.

It’s time we stop acting like anal play is in any way ‘gay’, and embrace this magical organ located inside of your ass. There is a world of pleasure you’re missing out on, and I’d hate for you to go the rest of your life without being able to experience it.

I mean, let’s be honest. If you could have 100 – literally 100 powerful orgasms in one session, wouldn’t that be worth exploring further? My god, I couldn’t even imagine!

Anyway, you have my permission. Get an Aneros and put it in your butt. You might not achieve a prostate orgasm the first time you try it, but I’ll be waiting to hear back about how great it was once you do.

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Otherwise, thanks for reading, and enjoy your newfound pleasure!

~ Lexi

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This is a time period after orgasming where you are physically unable to get an erection, and your interest in sex diminishes to zero almost instantly. In fact, if you think about it, it’s actually pretty incredible that you can go from incredibly horny to being in a completely different mindset just seconds after orgasming!

Of course, if you want to have sex multiple times, you’ll want your refractory period to be as short as possible.

So, in this article I’ll talk about what causes the refractory period, factors that influence its length, and what you can do to shorten it as much as possible. I’ll also cover what you can do in the meantime to keep things spicy in the bedroom, while you wait to get hard again.

Let’s get started!

What Causes The Refractory Period, Anyway?

Interestingly enough, we know A LOT about how different sexual processes were beneficial to our evolution. However, one thing that we don’t understand all that much is why we have a refractory period at all.

After all, you’d think that the more sex we had, the more likely women would be to get pregnant, right?

Well, we know that we need time for sperm to replenish. The relaxation after an orgasm may also encourage partners to stay and bond, rather than just pursuing more sex, perhaps with someone else.

As for how the changes actually happen so suddenly, it comes down to neurochemistry.

Before and after orgasm, your brain is flooded with different hormones, that affect things like interest in sex, ability to achieve an erection, and even your level of energy.

For example prolactin and serotonin increases feelings of sexual satisfaction and relaxation, while dopamine after ejaculation makes your penis less responsive to stimulation.

It can take some time for hormones to return to their normal levels after orgasm.

Additionally, the autonomic nervous system, which governs involuntary bodily functions, undergoes a shift after orgasm. The sympathetic nervous system, responsible for the “fight or flight” response, is highly active during sexual excitement. Following orgasm, there is a transition to the parasympathetic nervous system, which promotes relaxation and recovery. This switch can result in temporary erectile dysfunction and a reduced desire for further sexual activity, as the body needs time to reset.

What Factors Make It Longer?

The duration of the refractory period can vary significantly from person to person and is influenced by a variety of factors.

1. Age

One of the most significant factors affecting the refractory period, unfortunately, is age. As men get older, their bodies experience hormonal changes, such as a decrease in testosterone levels. This decline can lead to longer refractory periods, as testosterone plays a key role in sexual arousal and performance. Younger men generally have shorter refractory periods, allowing them to engage in sexual activity more frequently.

Unfortunately guys, this one is pretty unavoidable. Thankfully, there’s still a lot we can do.

2. Hormonal Levels

Hormones are pivotal in regulating sexual function. Elevated levels of prolactin, which surge after ejaculation, can prolong the refractory period. Similarly, lower levels of testosterone can hinder the ability to become aroused again quickly. Conditions that affect hormonal balance, such as hormonal disorders or obesity, can also lead to extended refractory periods.

If your refractory periods are particularly long or you are having other symptoms, it may be worth having your testosterone levels checked.

3. Psychological Factors

Mental health plays a crucial role in sexual function. Anxiety, stress, and depression can impact libido and performance, potentially lengthening the refractory period. A heightened state of arousal or nervousness during sexual encounters can lead to increased tension, making it harder to relax and recover post-orgasm. Conversely, positive emotional states and a comfortable, relaxed environment can help shorten the refractory period.

4. Physical Health

Overall physical health and fitness levels can affect the refractory period as well. Conditions such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and obesity can impair blood flow and hormonal function, making it more challenging to achieve erections and become sexually aroused again quickly. Regular exercise and a healthy diet can help mitigate these issues, promoting better sexual health.

5. Medications

Certain medications can impact sexual function and the refractory period. Antidepressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), are known to cause sexual side effects, including prolonged refractory periods. Other medications, such as those for high blood pressure or prostate issues, can also affect sexual performance and recovery time.

There are other classes of antidepressants that are known to not have as intense of effects on sexual performance. One such example is Welbutrin, which is nicknamed the ‘happy, horny, skinny’ pill.

6. Frequency Of Orgasms

How frequently you orgasm may also play a part in the length of your refractory period.

After multiple orgasms in a short period, the body may take longer to recover – in fact, you may notice each subsequent orgasm takes longer and longer.

If you go a long time without ejaculating, it may be easier to do so a second or even third time without waiting as long.

How To Shorten Your Refractory Period

Shortening the refractory period is achievable by making small adjustments to your lifestyle, and doesn’t require drastic intevention. Of course, it does take work, and some people are simply blessed with shorter refractory periods than others. Still, there is a lot you can do!

First and foremost, maintaining a healthy diet is essential. Nutrient-rich foods can enhance overall health and hormonal balance. It goes without saying, but eating healthy improves all aspects of your body, including your sexual performance. Incorporating fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins into your meals provides the necessary vitamins and minerals that support reproductive health. Specific nutrients, such as zinc and omega-3 fatty acids, are particularly beneficial for hormone production and blood circulation, both of which play crucial roles in sexual function.

Fish oil and zync supplements are only a few cents a day on Amazon, so if you aren’t getting enough through diet, this may be worth considering! Of course, always consult your doctor before starting new supplements.

Equally important to diet is achieving and maintaining a healthy body weight. Excess weight can lead to hormonal imbalances, particularly a decrease in testosterone levels, which is linked to longer refractory periods. Engaging in regular physical activity not only aids in weight management but also improves cardiovascular health, enhances blood flow, and boosts energy levels. Cardio exercises, in particular, are beneficial as they strengthen the heart and improve circulation, ensuring that blood flows effectively during arousal.

Remember that pills like Viagra and Cialis don’t magically make you horny, they just improve bloodflow. There’s a lot you can do to help out, even without these two pills!

Addressing mental health is another vital component. Conditions like depression and anxiety can significantly impact libido and sexual performance. Seeking treatment, whether through therapy, counseling, or medication, can alleviate these symptoms. When you feel mentally well, your body is more likely to respond positively during sexual encounters, reducing the refractory period.

It’s also crucial to tackle any underlying issues that contribute to erectile dysfunction. This can include consulting with a healthcare provider to discuss medical conditions, medications, or lifestyle habits that may be affecting your sexual health. Open communication with partners can also alleviate performance anxiety, fostering a more relaxed environment that can aid recovery after orgasm.

Although I am not a licensed sex therapist, I have done a lot of phone calls with people that they’ve told me have been quite helpful, so don’t hesitate to book a call with me if you’d like to talk about anything on your mind. You can learn more at LewdLexi.com/phone/

If you feel that medication might be the right answer, check out this article to learn more about the differences between Viagra and Cialis.

Next up, avoid excessive alcohol and recreational drugs if possible. I understand alcohol can help you wind down and put you in the mood, but it ain’t doing you any favors when it comes to your refractory period.

Finally, prioritizing cardiovascular health cannot be overstated. Conditions such as high blood pressure and diabetes can severely impact sexual function. Regular check-ups with a healthcare provider, coupled with a heart-healthy lifestyle, can mitigate these risks. Incorporating activities like walking, jogging, or cycling into your routine not only benefits your heart but also boosts your mood and energy levels.

As you can see, there’s not a whole lot that can be done when it comes to things like hormone levels. A lot of the work is just making it easier to achieve an erection.

So, if you’re having sex a lot or you’re desensitized to sex from excessive porn consumption, consider cutting out these as well.

Want To Go For Round Two? Try This In The Meantime

Although women have a refractory period as well, it’s not really as intense as men’s are – and there is nothing physically preventing us from having sex, even after orgasm.

Therefore, you can keep your sex session going without her losing interest as well, as long as you do it right.

It helps to have a plan in place for what you want to do after you orgasm, and remember that you will get interested in sex again before long, as long as you are patient.

Think about it this way – if you have cum and she hasn’t, why not use this time to try to give her an orgasm as well?

Or, you can transition to other acts that are intimate and romantic. Kissing, cuddling, or making out while you wait for your erection to return can all make excellent choices, while keeping her in the mood for sex.

Finally, if you need to pee or grab a quick snack, there’s no harm in doing so either.

Sometimes, removing yourself from the room for the moment and then returning to see your partner naked, waiting, and ready can be just the change you need to get yourself back in the mood!

Conclusion

I’m pretty sure endless, horny sex that never has to stop is many people’s idea of heaven on Earth. Unfortunately, the refractory period makes this pretty much impossible.

Thankfully, although you cannot eliminate the refractory period entirely, there are things you can do to make it as short as possible. And as long as you know that your interest in sex will return before long, there’s no reason you need to stop after just one orgasm!

~ Lexi

Lewd Lexi

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